Girlfriend
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One night stands
Their eyes met and they fell in love. The first night was like a fairy tale and then he disappeared. She thinks: I must be too old/young/too experienced in sex/not experienced enough in sex/too beautiful/too ugly/too fat/too skinny… It is difficult to comprehend for the mind so saturated with sex culture and magazines the fact [...]
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7 warning signs of abuser
So far I was writing about everything positive, but time came to go to the dark side of romantic relationships: abuse. How wise women can protect themselves, children and friends while dating? Many of the early signs seem to be caring, attentive and romantic gestures. These gestures lull you into the trap of the future abuse. None of these [...]
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Is moving in a shortcut to marriage?
He asked you to move in? You are ecstatic and wondering “how early is too early”. You start packing, “it makes so much more financial sense – to live together”. If you want to develop strong meaningful relationships, if you want to get married and have a full happy family. The answer to this proposal [...]
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From awkwardly shy to social butterfly
It is hard enough to date. Dating for shy people becomes just a torture. Can we fix it? Shyness can be defined as inability or unwillingness to communicate and interact on your own initiative. Shy people usually have some negative experiences in communicating that they treat as failures and see communication as unsafe. Being shy [...]
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I can’t meet the right man
There are two components to this problem: “I can’t meet” and “the right man”. Today we will consider “I can’t meet” component. It is a communication and openness problem. Usually, expressed: “I do not want to seem desperate”, “I am shy”, “There are no good men left anyway, so no point looking”. It usually means [...]
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I’m in love with a jerk!
“I know he is a jerk, but I am just head over heels!”, “My head says no, but I really love him”, “He can be violent, but he will never hurt me”. How many times have we relied on hormones and chance when choosing a man? Too many. You know how it works: a little [...]
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10 great reasons to celebrate if you are still single
Dating game can be discouraging and tiresome. It can be so stressful that you forget that you are a happy woman just because. Here is a little article to give you a friendly pat on the shoulder, because you are happy already! You will have someone significant very soon, meanwhile you can celebrate: Freedom. You [...]
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Marriage: what’s in it for me?
“We are new age people, marriage is something relic from the dinosaur age, it is just not important any more. My mum fails to understand it for some reason.” Is marriage important? If not, why are so many women still obsessed with it? If yes, why are so many men trying to run away from [...]
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Ninja Wife Vs. Ninja Girlfriend
Everybody puts dating and marriage in the same basket. I used to do it too. But that is so wrong. Dating requires a completely different skill-set than marriage. Ninja Girlfriend has to be playful, sincere but not too open, able to judge fast and choose wisely, the list goes on. For Ninja Wife other qualities [...]
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Ninja Girlfriend warns you against…
Did you know that high achieving women who are successful, gorgeous, intelligent, loving and caring are the world’s worst daters? That does not make sense, right? Actually it does, if you look at dating from another perspective. What attracts men to women? That mysterious femininity – they want to have something they do not have, [...]
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Ninja Girlfriend invests in…
Why do we invest so much time and money in a career and invest almost next to nothing in finding the right life partner? We go to school, university, and endless professional development courses to get the right job, yet rely on chance to get the right man. Insane. It is socially acceptable to think [...]
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